To every child – I dream of a world where you can laugh, dance, sing, learn, live in peace and be happy’ – Malala Yousafzai Ngozi Onwuanibe is a UK registered social worker with over 15 years operational and strategic experience in the UK public and voluntary sector specialising in safeguarding (Child protection) children and family support. Ngozi also develops and offers safeguarding and leadership training to schools/individuals and organisations. Nigerian youths The season of joy is upon us with Christmas and the New Year round the corner. As ever, Nigerians remain optimistic about the future and what it holds for everyone. Whilst we look forward to this, I would want everyone to consider what it must be like for the average child/young person living in the country. This is a country where we profess to love our children yet have no major plans as a government on ensuring that they have access to basic amenities – consistent electricity/gas/good roads/education/training. The education system we previously had, which although had its own issues, was much better than what we currently have, which is largely private and unregulated. In western societies, there are safeguards put in place to ensure children feel safe and secure in their environments including school and at home. However, due to deprivation and limited job opportunities many parents work long hours and away from home. They mostly have to rely on others to care for their children. How then do they ensure that they provide the necessities for the family whilst keeping their children safe at home with strangers and/or family caring for them or whilst in school boarding or day? There was an unfortunate incident recorded in the papers some weeks ago where a young child, 13 year-old, Ochanya Ogbanje, was repeatedly raped by her charge, Andrew Ogbuja, a lecturer with Benue Polytechnic, Ugboko and his son, Victor. The response by the man’s wife was to send Ochanya back to her parents and only when there was an outcry from the public did the police and authorities take appropriate action. Unfortunately, Ochanya never recovered from the prolonged physical injuries and trauma she sustained and lost her life as a result. As a human being, a woman, what would make a mother and wife treat another woman’s child this way? What would make her accept the actions of her son and husband? What kind of role model was Mr Ogbaja to his son, wife and other children? Why did he and his son think that it was okay to abuse Ochanja, in this way? Father of 11 commits suicide over missing N600,000 church money in Delta We all as a society need to ask ourselves why we knowingly or unknowingly are complicit in fostering an environment in which children are abused by adults responsible for them and why we allow this to happen. There is something inherently wrong in a society that does not protect its young. I would like all of us as citizens of Nigeria to take some time to put ourselves in Ochanja’s shoes and to vow “never again”. This isn’t a case of hoping and praying that it does not happen to you as we like to do. We do have unrealistic expectations of our children sometimes without considering their ages and development and individual ability. I see children under the age of 13 on the streets hawking wares on behalf of their parents/charges with no thought of the danger they face daily from road accidents, kidnapping, and various types of abuse, physical, emotional, sexual and neglect. There was an incident which occurred some years ago where a 9 year-old girl was consistently and systematically sexually and emotionally abused by her half older brother, his friends and the security guard! The father was always away on business leaving the children in the care of the mother. She did not notice anything was wrong with her daughter until a family friend brought it to her attention. The case was reported to the police and the girl’s father removed her from her mother’s care. Other than medical treatment, and removing her from the perpetrator no support was offered to the 9 year-old girl. The boy remained with the mother, however I wonder what support was given to him and action taken to protect other children from him. Sadly these incidents are in no way unique and occur on a regular basis without any real support for the victims and/or the perpetrators who are left to pick up the pieces. Most children who have been abused experience low self-esteem/feel suicidal and blame themselves for what has happened to them. They also find it difficult to trust anyone and if left without support and any treatment, may go on to normalise their abuse and go on to abuse other children. It is very important to ensure that children who suffer abuse are offered treatment which could be in the form of psychotherapy/counselling/cognitive behavioural therapy and specialised counselling for the perpetrators and those involved with supporting them. There are some simple steps/actions we can take which I would outline below and hope that you would find these helpful. If we start from the premise that no parent would knowingly harm their child then there is scope for everyone to learn/re-learn some behaviour. It is imperative to understand your children as individuals and to teach them to also understand the concept of stranger/danger and body safety. As parents there are some steps we can take to help our children navigate the world around them. Over 1.8 billion children breathe toxic air daily – WHO One of the first things to do is spend quality time with your child/children individually and together. To do this you need to spend quality time with your child means and be “fully present”. By this, I mean, not being on the phone and/or watching TV for example. It also doesn’t need to take hours on end. The simple act of putting your phone down or stopping whatever you are doing to concentrate for 10 minutes or more with your child makes a huge difference. It shows your child that you care about what they have to say to you/it shows you are actively listening and that you respect them as individuals and guess what, they respond the same way when you want to talk to them too. Children model what they see and hear around them so it is important that you also let them know when you are busy and agree a time to talk. It is also important that you reassure your child that they can talk to you about anything/nothing is off limits and that you will hear them out without judgement. Now I know this can be challenging especially when we live in a culture that is mostly patriarchal and there are things that are considered an “abomination” to discuss with your children or vice versa. Thankfully with the rise in social media and exposure to different cultures on television some of these issues are no longer as hidden. For example, discussions about boyfriends/period pain are some issues some parents still don’t want to hear about. Hearing about your child telling you about having a boyfriend or finding someone cute helps you to understand some of the pressures/values they have and what other children in their school or friends are preoccupied with. It is the opportunity for you to gently advice your child on what options they have and to encourage them to know that you will be there to guide and support them. Let us also be aware that abuse thrives in an environment of fear and lack of openness and most abusers are familiar faces, people you know, uncles, family friends, religious leaders/aunties/relatives/people in authority, etc. Because these people know that if a child says something to their parents/teachers no one will believe them as they are “Children” “seen and not to be heard” they continue to abuse and maltreat children with impunity. The children themselves are aware that they live in a society where they are marginalised and voiceless then feel scared to say anything. One of the best things anyone can do for their child is to encourage them to have a voice, to have them know that they can have opinions and that these are valued as much as the next persons. Teach your child to know that no topic of discussion is off limits with you. Let them know that they need to trust their instincts and if it does not seem safe then it probably isn’t and they need to leave the environment. Crisis brews over Amapetu succession in Ondo Observe your child’s behaviour when they are around people. Does he or she feel unhappy when that uncle/aunty comes around? Do they make excuses on why they do not want to say hello? For babies, does the baby cry a lot or look distressed when this particular aunty/uncle is around or plays with them. Let your child know that their bodies are sacred and private to them. No one should ask to see or bath their private parts when they are old enough to bath themselves. Does that family member/friend/stranger have an unusual interest in your child which you don’t feel comfortable with? Call it out! A friend spoke of how an uncle, a family friend would ask to carry her on his laps and then start fondling himself and her whilst she was sitting on his laps. She recalls he would do this whilst her parents were present though discreetly and because they would be absorbed in the conversation they would not notice. She was 7 years old at the time! She would recall not wanting to say hello to this man when he visits although at times because he visits bearing gifts, sweets and biscuits she would go to him. It was only when an aunt visited and noticed she was uncomfortable whenever this particular family friend visited and asked her directly why she was fidgeting did she say he was touching her inappropriately. The aunt immediately informed the girl’s parents and they confronted the family friend who denied this happened. They haven’t been friends since then. This young woman is one of the lucky ones with an aunt who noticed what was going on and parents who believed her and made sure the man never came round the house again. Most accounts I have heard and seen have ended with the victim being further traumatised as the parents don’t believe them when they tell them what has occurred. They also continue to have the person visit the home. Catholic church split over abuse scandal gravity It is too painful and embarrassing for parents to hear a child has been abused or is abusing another child, making it a hidden issue and perpetuates the problem. Until we have open and honest conversations about abuse and the impact nothing will change. The impact on our children and society will be huge as they grow up dysfunctional accepting that abuse is normal and okay. It is not normal. There has to be a system leadership change in our country as these things are often left to individual families and at best churches, mosques to deal with in isolation. Most of these are not equipped to address the issue. We need to acknowledge as a society that abuse does not happen in isolation and takes place across all sectors of society in different guises. The change has to start with all of us. We can start having the conversation our homes/school, workplaces and religious institutions as safeguarding should be everyone’s business. Every school/public and religious institution should have safeguarding policies and procedures put in place and which are reviewed periodically. Safeguarding training should be provided to all staff and children taught about safety, who and what to do if they have been abused.
Read more at: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2018/11/safeguarding-young-people-to-adulthood/
Read more at: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2018/11/safeguarding-young-people-to-adulthood/
To every child – I dream of a world where you can laugh, dance, sing, learn, live in peace and be happy’ – Malala Yousafzai Ngozi Onwuanibe is a UK registered social worker with over 15 years operational and strategic experience in the UK public and voluntary sector specialising in safeguarding (Child protection) children and family support. Ngozi also develops and offers safeguarding and leadership training to schools/individuals and organisations. Nigerian youths The season of joy is upon us with Christmas and the New Year round the corner. As ever, Nigerians remain optimistic about the future and what it holds for everyone. Whilst we look forward to this, I would want everyone to consider what it must be like for the average child/young person living in the country. This is a country where we profess to love our children yet have no major plans as a government on ensuring that they have access to basic amenities – consistent electricity/gas/good roads/education/training. The education system we previously had, which although had its own issues, was much better than what we currently have, which is largely private and unregulated. In western societies, there are safeguards put in place to ensure children feel safe and secure in their environments including school and at home. However, due to deprivation and limited job opportunities many parents work long hours and away from home. They mostly have to rely on others to care for their children. How then do they ensure that they provide the necessities for the family whilst keeping their children safe at home with strangers and/or family caring for them or whilst in school boarding or day? There was an unfortunate incident recorded in the papers some weeks ago where a young child, 13 year-old, Ochanya Ogbanje, was repeatedly raped by her charge, Andrew Ogbuja, a lecturer with Benue Polytechnic, Ugboko and his son, Victor. The response by the man’s wife was to send Ochanya back to her parents and only when there was an outcry from the public did the police and authorities take appropriate action. Unfortunately, Ochanya never recovered from the prolonged physical injuries and trauma she sustained and lost her life as a result. As a human being, a woman, what would make a mother and wife treat another woman’s child this way? What would make her accept the actions of her son and husband? What kind of role model was Mr Ogbaja to his son, wife and other children? Why did he and his son think that it was okay to abuse Ochanja, in this way? Father of 11 commits suicide over missing N600,000 church money in Delta We all as a society need to ask ourselves why we knowingly or unknowingly are complicit in fostering an environment in which children are abused by adults responsible for them and why we allow this to happen. There is something inherently wrong in a society that does not protect its young. I would like all of us as citizens of Nigeria to take some time to put ourselves in Ochanja’s shoes and to vow “never again”. This isn’t a case of hoping and praying that it does not happen to you as we like to do. We do have unrealistic expectations of our children sometimes without considering their ages and development and individual ability. I see children under the age of 13 on the streets hawking wares on behalf of their parents/charges with no thought of the danger they face daily from road accidents, kidnapping, and various types of abuse, physical, emotional, sexual and neglect. There was an incident which occurred some years ago where a 9 year-old girl was consistently and systematically sexually and emotionally abused by her half older brother, his friends and the security guard! The father was always away on business leaving the children in the care of the mother. She did not notice anything was wrong with her daughter until a family friend brought it to her attention. The case was reported to the police and the girl’s father removed her from her mother’s care. Other than medical treatment, and removing her from the perpetrator no support was offered to the 9 year-old girl. The boy remained with the mother, however I wonder what support was given to him and action taken to protect other children from him. Sadly these incidents are in no way unique and occur on a regular basis without any real support for the victims and/or the perpetrators who are left to pick up the pieces. Most children who have been abused experience low self-esteem/feel suicidal and blame themselves for what has happened to them. They also find it difficult to trust anyone and if left without support and any treatment, may go on to normalise their abuse and go on to abuse other children. It is very important to ensure that children who suffer abuse are offered treatment which could be in the form of psychotherapy/counselling/cognitive behavioural therapy and specialised counselling for the perpetrators and those involved with supporting them. There are some simple steps/actions we can take which I would outline below and hope that you would find these helpful. If we start from the premise that no parent would knowingly harm their child then there is scope for everyone to learn/re-learn some behaviour. It is imperative to understand your children as individuals and to teach them to also understand the concept of stranger/danger and body safety. As parents there are some steps we can take to help our children navigate the world around them. Over 1.8 billion children breathe toxic air daily – WHO One of the first things to do is spend quality time with your child/children individually and together. To do this you need to spend quality time with your child means and be “fully present”. By this, I mean, not being on the phone and/or watching TV for example. It also doesn’t need to take hours on end. The simple act of putting your phone down or stopping whatever you are doing to concentrate for 10 minutes or more with your child makes a huge difference. It shows your child that you care about what they have to say to you/it shows you are actively listening and that you respect them as individuals and guess what, they respond the same way when you want to talk to them too. Children model what they see and hear around them so it is important that you also let them know when you are busy and agree a time to talk. It is also important that you reassure your child that they can talk to you about anything/nothing is off limits and that you will hear them out without judgement. Now I know this can be challenging especially when we live in a culture that is mostly patriarchal and there are things that are considered an “abomination” to discuss with your children or vice versa. Thankfully with the rise in social media and exposure to different cultures on television some of these issues are no longer as hidden. For example, discussions about boyfriends/period pain are some issues some parents still don’t want to hear about. Hearing about your child telling you about having a boyfriend or finding someone cute helps you to understand some of the pressures/values they have and what other children in their school or friends are preoccupied with. It is the opportunity for you to gently advice your child on what options they have and to encourage them to know that you will be there to guide and support them. Let us also be aware that abuse thrives in an environment of fear and lack of openness and most abusers are familiar faces, people you know, uncles, family friends, religious leaders/aunties/relatives/people in authority, etc. Because these people know that if a child says something to their parents/teachers no one will believe them as they are “Children” “seen and not to be heard” they continue to abuse and maltreat children with impunity. The children themselves are aware that they live in a society where they are marginalised and voiceless then feel scared to say anything. One of the best things anyone can do for their child is to encourage them to have a voice, to have them know that they can have opinions and that these are valued as much as the next persons. Teach your child to know that no topic of discussion is off limits with you. Let them know that they need to trust their instincts and if it does not seem safe then it probably isn’t and they need to leave the environment. Crisis brews over Amapetu succession in Ondo Observe your child’s behaviour when they are around people. Does he or she feel unhappy when that uncle/aunty comes around? Do they make excuses on why they do not want to say hello? For babies, does the baby cry a lot or look distressed when this particular aunty/uncle is around or plays with them. Let your child know that their bodies are sacred and private to them. No one should ask to see or bath their private parts when they are old enough to bath themselves. Does that family member/friend/stranger have an unusual interest in your child which you don’t feel comfortable with? Call it out! A friend spoke of how an uncle, a family friend would ask to carry her on his laps and then start fondling himself and her whilst she was sitting on his laps. She recalls he would do this whilst her parents were present though discreetly and because they would be absorbed in the conversation they would not notice. She was 7 years old at the time! She would recall not wanting to say hello to this man when he visits although at times because he visits bearing gifts, sweets and biscuits she would go to him. It was only when an aunt visited and noticed she was uncomfortable whenever this particular family friend visited and asked her directly why she was fidgeting did she say he was touching her inappropriately. The aunt immediately informed the girl’s parents and they confronted the family friend who denied this happened. They haven’t been friends since then. This young woman is one of the lucky ones with an aunt who noticed what was going on and parents who believed her and made sure the man never came round the house again. Most accounts I have heard and seen have ended with the victim being further traumatised as the parents don’t believe them when they tell them what has occurred. They also continue to have the person visit the home. Catholic church split over abuse scandal gravity It is too painful and embarrassing for parents to hear a child has been abused or is abusing another child, making it a hidden issue and perpetuates the problem. Until we have open and honest conversations about abuse and the impact nothing will change. The impact on our children and society will be huge as they grow up dysfunctional accepting that abuse is normal and okay. It is not normal. There has to be a system leadership change in our country as these things are often left to individual families and at best churches, mosques to deal with in isolation. Most of these are not equipped to address the issue. We need to acknowledge as a society that abuse does not happen in isolation and takes place across all sectors of society in different guises. The change has to start with all of us. We can start having the conversation our homes/school, workplaces and religious institutions as safeguarding should be everyone’s business. Every school/public and religious institution should have safeguarding policies and procedures put in place and which are reviewed periodically. Safeguarding training should be provided to all staff and children taught about safety, who and what to do if they have been abused.
Read more at: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2018/11/safeguarding-young-people-to-adulthood/
Read more at: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2018/11/safeguarding-young-people-to-adulthood/
To every child – I dream of a world where you can laugh, dance, sing, learn, live in peace and be happy’ – Malala Yousafzai Ngozi Onwuanibe is a UK registered social worker with over 15 years operational and strategic experience in the UK public and voluntary sector specialising in safeguarding (Child protection) children and family support. Ngozi also develops and offers safeguarding and leadership training to schools/individuals and organisations. Nigerian youths The season of joy is upon us with Christmas and the New Year round the corner. As ever, Nigerians remain optimistic about the future and what it holds for everyone. Whilst we look forward to this, I would want everyone to consider what it must be like for the average child/young person living in the country. This is a country where we profess to love our children yet have no major plans as a government on ensuring that they have access to basic amenities – consistent electricity/gas/good roads/education/training. The education system we previously had, which although had its own issues, was much better than what we currently have, which is largely private and unregulated. In western societies, there are safeguards put in place to ensure children feel safe and secure in their environments including school and at home. However, due to deprivation and limited job opportunities many parents work long hours and away from home. They mostly have to rely on others to care for their children. How then do they ensure that they provide the necessities for the family whilst keeping their children safe at home with strangers and/or family caring for them or whilst in school boarding or day? There was an unfortunate incident recorded in the papers some weeks ago where a young child, 13 year-old, Ochanya Ogbanje, was repeatedly raped by her charge, Andrew Ogbuja, a lecturer with Benue Polytechnic, Ugboko and his son, Victor. The response by the man’s wife was to send Ochanya back to her parents and only when there was an outcry from the public did the police and authorities take appropriate action. Unfortunately, Ochanya never recovered from the prolonged physical injuries and trauma she sustained and lost her life as a result. As a human being, a woman, what would make a mother and wife treat another woman’s child this way? What would make her accept the actions of her son and husband? What kind of role model was Mr Ogbaja to his son, wife and other children? Why did he and his son think that it was okay to abuse Ochanja, in this way? Father of 11 commits suicide over missing N600,000 church money in Delta We all as a society need to ask ourselves why we knowingly or unknowingly are complicit in fostering an environment in which children are abused by adults responsible for them and why we allow this to happen. There is something inherently wrong in a society that does not protect its young. I would like all of us as citizens of Nigeria to take some time to put ourselves in Ochanja’s shoes and to vow “never again”. This isn’t a case of hoping and praying that it does not happen to you as we like to do. We do have unrealistic expectations of our children sometimes without considering their ages and development and individual ability. I see children under the age of 13 on the streets hawking wares on behalf of their parents/charges with no thought of the danger they face daily from road accidents, kidnapping, and various types of abuse, physical, emotional, sexual and neglect. There was an incident which occurred some years ago where a 9 year-old girl was consistently and systematically sexually and emotionally abused by her half older brother, his friends and the security guard! The father was always away on business leaving the children in the care of the mother. She did not notice anything was wrong with her daughter until a family friend brought it to her attention. The case was reported to the police and the girl’s father removed her from her mother’s care. Other than medical treatment, and removing her from the perpetrator no support was offered to the 9 year-old girl. The boy remained with the mother, however I wonder what support was given to him and action taken to protect other children from him. Sadly these incidents are in no way unique and occur on a regular basis without any real support for the victims and/or the perpetrators who are left to pick up the pieces. Most children who have been abused experience low self-esteem/feel suicidal and blame themselves for what has happened to them. They also find it difficult to trust anyone and if left without support and any treatment, may go on to normalise their abuse and go on to abuse other children. It is very important to ensure that children who suffer abuse are offered treatment which could be in the form of psychotherapy/counselling/cognitive behavioural therapy and specialised counselling for the perpetrators and those involved with supporting them. There are some simple steps/actions we can take which I would outline below and hope that you would find these helpful. If we start from the premise that no parent would knowingly harm their child then there is scope for everyone to learn/re-learn some behaviour. It is imperative to understand your children as individuals and to teach them to also understand the concept of stranger/danger and body safety. As parents there are some steps we can take to help our children navigate the world around them. Over 1.8 billion children breathe toxic air daily – WHO One of the first things to do is spend quality time with your child/children individually and together. To do this you need to spend quality time with your child means and be “fully present”. By this, I mean, not being on the phone and/or watching TV for example. It also doesn’t need to take hours on end. The simple act of putting your phone down or stopping whatever you are doing to concentrate for 10 minutes or more with your child makes a huge difference. It shows your child that you care about what they have to say to you/it shows you are actively listening and that you respect them as individuals and guess what, they respond the same way when you want to talk to them too. Children model what they see and hear around them so it is important that you also let them know when you are busy and agree a time to talk. It is also important that you reassure your child that they can talk to you about anything/nothing is off limits and that you will hear them out without judgement. Now I know this can be challenging especially when we live in a culture that is mostly patriarchal and there are things that are considered an “abomination” to discuss with your children or vice versa. Thankfully with the rise in social media and exposure to different cultures on television some of these issues are no longer as hidden. For example, discussions about boyfriends/period pain are some issues some parents still don’t want to hear about. Hearing about your child telling you about having a boyfriend or finding someone cute helps you to understand some of the pressures/values they have and what other children in their school or friends are preoccupied with. It is the opportunity for you to gently advice your child on what options they have and to encourage them to know that you will be there to guide and support them. Let us also be aware that abuse thrives in an environment of fear and lack of openness and most abusers are familiar faces, people you know, uncles, family friends, religious leaders/aunties/relatives/people in authority, etc. Because these people know that if a child says something to their parents/teachers no one will believe them as they are “Children” “seen and not to be heard” they continue to abuse and maltreat children with impunity. The children themselves are aware that they live in a society where they are marginalised and voiceless then feel scared to say anything. One of the best things anyone can do for their child is to encourage them to have a voice, to have them know that they can have opinions and that these are valued as much as the next persons. Teach your child to know that no topic of discussion is off limits with you. Let them know that they need to trust their instincts and if it does not seem safe then it probably isn’t and they need to leave the environment. Crisis brews over Amapetu succession in Ondo Observe your child’s behaviour when they are around people. Does he or she feel unhappy when that uncle/aunty comes around? Do they make excuses on why they do not want to say hello? For babies, does the baby cry a lot or look distressed when this particular aunty/uncle is around or plays with them. Let your child know that their bodies are sacred and private to them. No one should ask to see or bath their private parts when they are old enough to bath themselves. Does that family member/friend/stranger have an unusual interest in your child which you don’t feel comfortable with? Call it out! A friend spoke of how an uncle, a family friend would ask to carry her on his laps and then start fondling himself and her whilst she was sitting on his laps. She recalls he would do this whilst her parents were present though discreetly and because they would be absorbed in the conversation they would not notice. She was 7 years old at the time! She would recall not wanting to say hello to this man when he visits although at times because he visits bearing gifts, sweets and biscuits she would go to him. It was only when an aunt visited and noticed she was uncomfortable whenever this particular family friend visited and asked her directly why she was fidgeting did she say he was touching her inappropriately. The aunt immediately informed the girl’s parents and they confronted the family friend who denied this happened. They haven’t been friends since then. This young woman is one of the lucky ones with an aunt who noticed what was going on and parents who believed her and made sure the man never came round the house again. Most accounts I have heard and seen have ended with the victim being further traumatised as the parents don’t believe them when they tell them what has occurred. They also continue to have the person visit the home. Catholic church split over abuse scandal gravity It is too painful and embarrassing for parents to hear a child has been abused or is abusing another child, making it a hidden issue and perpetuates the problem. Until we have open and honest conversations about abuse and the impact nothing will change. The impact on our children and society will be huge as they grow up dysfunctional accepting that abuse is normal and okay. It is not normal. There has to be a system leadership change in our country as these things are often left to individual families and at best churches, mosques to deal with in isolation. Most of these are not equipped to address the issue. We need to acknowledge as a society that abuse does not happen in isolation and takes place across all sectors of society in different guises. The change has to start with all of us. We can start having the conversation our homes/school, workplaces and religious institutions as safeguarding should be everyone’s business. Every school/public and religious institution should have safeguarding policies and procedures put in place and which are reviewed periodically. Safeguarding training should be provided to all staff and children taught about safety, who and what to do if they have been abused.
Read more at: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2018/11/safeguarding-young-people-to-adulthood/
Read more at: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2018/11/safeguarding-young-people-to-adulthood/
Read the piece by Reno Omokri below...On Tuesday, November 20, 2018, the
Face of Democracy in Africa, Dr. Goodluck Jonathan, will be 61 years
old. On that same day, he will be presenting his brilliant book, My
Transition Hours, to the public.Finally, through that book, the world
will get to see the man behind close doors and will, I hope, found out
that no Nigerian leader has shown the level of self sacrifice, self
control and restraint that former President Jonathan showed during and
after his five-year tenure as President.However, because of a long
succession of brutal military dictators beginning from 1966 and
continuing even into the advent of the Fourth Republic, many Nigerians
have been conditioned to see brutality as strength and restraint as
weakness.But after three years of a brutal and brutally ineffective
President, many citizens are only coming to know now what I knew in
2010-that Dr. Goodluck Jonathan is a leader of men who sees the people
as the big picture rather than himself.He tried to show Nigerians the
true meaning of leadership. Unfortunately, the psyche of our people has
for long been conditioned to respecting leaders who rule, who boss and
who throw their weight around. It was a culture shock to have a leader
who rather than throw his considerable weight around, three his
intellect around, which is why no leader in Nigeria’s history has built
as many schools as Dr. Jonathan did.And the thing is that he did not
have to. Primary education is the constitutional preserve of the states.
Yet President Jonathan built 165 almajiri schools because he could not
sit by and watch as 11 million Nigerian children, mostly in the North,
were out of the school system.Not stopping there, he built fourteen new
universities comprising of twelve new federal universities and two
specialised universities. Before Jonathan, 12 Nigerian states had no
federal universities. After Jonathan, no Nigerian state was without at
least one university.I had the privilege of asking him why he did what
he did and he told me in California, while playing with my children, as
follows ‘Reno, no investment yields as much profit as education’.
Indeed, Jonathan is a philosopher king!From him, I learnt that the best
way to be a leader is not to boss people around, but to help solve their
problems. Think of it this way. There are many ships in the sea and the
sea is dark. If you want all the ships to come to you, then be a
lighthouse and they will come to you of their own accord.I remember when
I joined him on a trip to London and at the airport, the Nigerian High
Commission to the U.K. had provided a Mercedes sedan to pick him up from
the airport. I was to join him at his hotel, so I escorted him to the
car with another of his associates. He got in and then looked at me and
asked what I was waiting for. I told him I would get a taxi and he goes,
‘don’t be silly’, then does the most amazing thing. He shifted to the
middle of the back seat and beckoned on my friend and I to join him on
what is known as the owners’ corner in Nigeria. I know of no other
leader with the humility to do that. A quintessential leader is Dr.
Jonathan. A man who treated everyone with respect even though he was the
President of the largest Black nation on earth who led her to become
Africa’s economy. One thing you can be sure of is that if President
Jonathan is looking down at you, he is doing so only because he is
admiring your shoes.I learnt true humility from him, but it was in the
area of communication that President Jonathan schooled me the best. From
him I discovered that learning the art of communication will make you a
leader. Dr. Jonathan never speak just to express yourself. He considers
that a waste of time. Rather, he always speaks to persuade others. When
others are talking, he listens to them as if they are the most
important persons on earth. Honestly, it is an almost ecstatic event to
have a one on one communication with Dr. Goodluck Jonathan.As he turns
61 today, I want to remind Nigerians of a statement he made four years
ago.On the 7th of March 2014, then President Jonathan said “I am loyal
to Nigeria’s economy. I don’t have accounts or property abroad. All my
children school in Nigeria”.Till date, nobody has been able to
contradict that statement because it is true. But even more impressive
is the fact that not one of those who have made it their career to blame
Jonathan for everything that is wrong with their lives, can say the
same thing.Dr. Jonathan was able to achieve this because he was a
patriot who really believes in Nigeria. Look at his initiatives to turn
around the lives of Nigerian youths. You have the Youth Enterprise With
Innovation in Nigeria (YouWin), the Graduate Internship Scheme (GIS),
the Presidential Special Scholarship Scheme for Innovations and
Development scholarships (PRESSID) to First Class graduates of Nigerian
universities to mention a few.With these schemes, it is no wonder that
Nigeria under Jonathan became the third fastest growing economy in the
world according to CNNMoney and the International Monetary
Fund.Nowadays, those who rode to power on the back of the freedoms that
Dr. Jonathan ensured in Nigeria now threaten to lock up their critics
citing ‘hate speech’. Have these individuals ever sat down to consider
that under Jonathan’s leadership, not one single person was sent to
prison because of anything he or she wrote or said about the President
or the government he headed. Nigeria had no political prisoners under
Jonathan’s administration and the nation certainly did not have any
prisoners of conscience because Jonathan himself ensured that he acted
according to his conscience in all he did.On social media, I read many
Nigerian youths saying things like, how did we go from 'my ambition is
not worth the blood of any Nigerian' to being called lazy Nigerian
youths? That is one question I cannot answer. But one thing I know, the
Nigerian youth under President Jonathan were some of the most talented
and productive.That is why Nigeria was rated by Gallup as the happiest
nation in the world under Jonathan. Think about that for a minute and
then join me in wishing Dr. Goodluck Ebele Jonathan a very well deserved
happy birthday as well as a long and fulfilled life to continue serving
humanity through the Goodluck Jonathan Foundation.The post 
Read press statement from PDP belowThe Peoples Democratic Party (PDP)
says Vice President Yemi Osinbajo, as a preacher, should search his
soul, seek forgiveness and make restitution for entangling himself in
corruption and sharp practices, instead of his lame effort at
concealment in the N5.8 billion Northeast Intervention Fund scandal.It
is heart-rending that Prof. Osinbajo, despite his sanctimonious
posturing, is being fingered in the frittering of the N5.8 billion meant
for the purchase of food and general welfare of suffering Internally
Displaced Persons (IDPs) in the Northeast.Prof. Osinbajo should know
that he has come to the end of the road and that Nigerians have
completely lost faith in him, since the House of Representatives exposed
his complicity in this unpardonable debauchery against weak and
vulnerable citizens.Instead of asking for forgiveness and making
restitutions, Prof. Osinbajo is busy trying to divert attention from the
reeking corruption of the Buhari administration, while bandying figures
in an attempt to distance himself from the failures of this
administration.Is it not revealing of the arrogance of this
administration that Prof. Osinbajo, even in the face of indictment by
the House of Representatives, still conjures the temerity to confront
Nigerians and try to wave off this corrupt act?We ask; how can Prof.
Osinbajo find inner peace when all the six states of the Northeast
reported that they never received the emergency intervention for food
security?From the probe, which exposed how the Vice President, then as
Acting President, in 2017, drew N5.8 billion from the Consolidated
Revenue Fund of the Federation, without the appropriation of the
National Assembly, only to superintend over the purported spending as
the Chairman of Board of the National Emergency Management Agency
(NEMA), it is clear that it was never in the interest of the suffering
and displaced masses.The PDP therefore expects Prof. Osinbajo to end his
grandstanding, show remorse and make restitutions for this debauchery
against humanity. The post 
Femi Otedola was earlier rumoured to be the governorship candidate for PDP but Jimi Aggaje has since emerged.The post 
The outgoing governor of Osun, Rauf Aregbesola has said he did not earn
salaries throughout the eight years of his administration. Aregbesola
spoke during an interactive programme tagged ‘Ogbeni Till Day Break’ on
Saturday in Osogbo saying since it was the state that was feeding him,
fueling his cars and providing him with accomodation, there was no need
for him to be paid. He also said that he does not have any bank
account where he keeps money in any part of the world. ”I have not
collected salaries since I became the governor of the state. The state
feeds me, fuels my car and provides me accomodation. With all these, I
don’t need money.I have no money and bank account anywhere. I have no
house except the one I built before I became the governor. Anyone can go
out there to investigate if I have bank account”, he said. Aregbesola
who will be handing over to the governor-elect, Alhaji Gboyega Oyetola
on November 27, said he would vacate the Government House by
Monday, November 19. He said the decision to leave the Government House
earlier, was to give his successor enough time to do necessary
renovations.The post 
Daddy Freeze has reacted to the viral video of actress/Evangelst
Patience Ozokwor saying a born again Christian is not ready to serve God
if he or she has not changed their wardrobe. Reacting to her post
via his IG page, Freeze wrote''Wow, this used to be my favorite
actress..... We have all been schooled in error, Christianity does not
dictate a dress code, modesty in all things is advised, but this right
here is someone’s personal philosophy, NOT Christ’s! This is just sadYes
the church should be separate from the world. But the world is not
fashion or music, it’s money power and religion.When Yeshua said the
world hated him, who was he talking about? Fashion designers? Of course
not, it was religious people using the name of God who hated him. John
15:18 New Living Translation"If the world hates you, remember that it
hated me first.-If you want to drive the world out of the church, start
with the GOsWatch the viral video of Evangelist Ozokwor speaking on
Christianity and wardrobe below View this post on
Instagram If you have repented and you have not changed your
wardrobe, you stil have a long way to go- Evangelist Patience Ozokwor
saysA post shared by LIB - Linda Ikeji Blog (@lindaikejiblog) on Nov 17,
2018 at 2:00am PSTThe post 
The Super Eagles of Nigeria have qualified for next year’s AFCON after
they were forced to a 1-1 draw by hosts South Africa in
Johannesburg. Nigeria now have 10 points from five matches and their
final game at home against Seychelles will now be a mere
formality. South Africa, on the other hand, will have to wait till their
final qualifying match against Libya in March to decide their
qualification. South Africa will need to avoid defeat in the match to
also advance to 2019 AFCON. The Eagles took the lead in the ninth
minute when Samuel Kalu’s cross was turned into the net by Buhle
Mkhwanazi. South Africa drew level through France-based striker Lebo
Mothiba on 26 minutes, when he slotted home a cross by the Man of the
Match Percy Tau.The post 
Super Eagles stars including Alex Iwobi, Ahmed Musa, John Ogu, Isaac
Promise, Kelechi Ihenacho and others were filmed in the dressing room
celebrating after they qualified for 2019 African Cup Nation tournament.
(AFCON) this evening.Nigeria drew 1-1 with hosts South Africa in
Johannesburg this afternoon, qualifying with 10 points from five matches
in Group E. Their final game will be at home against Seychelles on the
22nd of March, 2019.Watch the videos below.‘He’s a miracle working
God.’After losing our first game of the qualifying series at home, we
have qualified for #2019AFCON with a game to spare. We thank you all for
your support and belief in our team.#SoarSuperEagles #Team9jaStrong.
pic.twitter.com/c5K8Do6PiR— Super Eagles (@NGSuperEagles) November 17,
2018‘He has given us victory.’Our boys on cloud 9 after picking one of
the 2 #2019AFCON tickets in Group E.#SoarSuperEagles #Team9jaStrong.
pic.twitter.com/TbXUMyRbLD— Super Eagles (@NGSuperEagles) November 17,
2018Some dressing room reactions after we sealed our place at #2019AFCON
#RSANGA #SoarSuperEagles #Team9jaStrong. pic.twitter.com/mq2isnbxkg—
Super Eagles (@NGSuperEagles) November 17, 2018‘He has given us
victory.’Our boys on cloud 9 after picking one of the 2 #2019AFCON
tickets in Group E.#SoarSuperEagles #Team9jaStrong.
pic.twitter.com/TbXUMyRbLD— Super Eagles (@NGSuperEagles) November 17,
2018Who can stop us from rejoicing.We are back to #AFCON2019 after
missing the last 2 editions.#SoarSuperEagles #Team9jaStrong.
pic.twitter.com/biurGOMSk9— Super Eagles (@NGSuperEagles) November 17,
2018“Our hands are blessed.”More dressing room celebration
videos.#RSANGA #AFCON2019 #SoarSuperEagles #Team9jaStrong.
pic.twitter.com/RPU2bILp6Y— Super Eagles (@NGSuperEagles) November 17,
2018The post 
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These are the lovely photos of the Top 18 finalists for Miss Nigeria 2018 who have been selected from the 6 geo political zones in Nigeria.This year, contestants can vote their favourite contestant into the Viewers' Choice Top 12 by liking their photos. Such votes will contribute 50% of the final scores for the Top 12 while the technical judging will be the final 50%.More photos below.. 
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The Bayelsa State Government has confirmed the arrest of two suspected
cult members who were said to have killed Miss Seiyefa Fred during a
robbery incident in Yenagoa on November 8, 2018. The Special Adviser
to the Governor of Bayelsa State on Security, Boss Spero-Jack, said the
two suspects linked to the murder of Seiyefa, 100 level student of
Mathematics at the Niger Delta University, were apprehended by the
Bayelsa State Vigilance Service on Friday. According to him, the two
suspects, Junior Danumunabo, aged 20, from Nembe Local Government Area
of the state and one Ezeago, were picked up at Amarata area at about 5am
on Friday following investigation into the crime. He said that the
preliminary findings indicated that Ezeago was the leader of the gang,
who gave the gun with which Seiyefa was killed, to Danumunabo. He said
that the suspects had been handed over to the Nigerian Police for
further interrogation. The governor’s aide on security added that
efforts were being intensified to ensure the arrest of all those
involved in the murder of the NDU student. Spero-Jack said the state
government would ensure that those who killed her and their
counterparts, who constitute threat to the lives of innocent Bayelsans,
are made to face the wrath of the law. Also, the spokesperson of the
state police command, Asinim Butswat, confirmed the arrest of the
suspects and the recovery of a locally made pistol.The post 
President Buhari says he has given an ordered to the Economic and
Financial Crimes Commission, EFCC, to ensure that monies recovered from
looters do not find their way back to the looters. President Buhari said
this when he received members of the Christian Association of Nigeria
(CAN), led by its President, Samson Ayokunle, at the State house in
Abuja. He said that he has ordered that every recovered money should be
kept in a dedicated account.“It is on record that some cases initiated
by the anti-graft bodies since 2003 are yet to be concluded. We will,
however, not be discouraged. Where monies have been recovered, such
monies will not find their way back to the looters as I have directed
EFCC to account for every money it has recovered and put them in a
dedicated account.” President Buhari saidSpeaking on the 2019 general
elections, President Buhari told the Christian leaders that he has
assurances from the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC)
that the polls would be free and fair, noting that he has been a victim
of ‘fraudulent elections’ and beneficiary of a free and fair election in
the past.“When I decided to put on this Agbada to see what the people
are seeing in it, I tried three times, 2003, 2007 and 2011, but the
fourth time, in 2015, I succeeded. We thank God and technology in the
form of Permanent Voter’s Cards (PVCs) and card reader because what they
used to do was to look at constituencies, award the votes and then they
will say whoever didn’t agree should go to court. When people are
looking for what to eat, where do they have the money to go to court to
pay the SANs?” President Buhari said The post 
Read his article below...Fellow Nigerians, today’s epistle was inspired
last minute by an encounter I had last night with a Buharideen. I had
been contemplating what to write about this week when I ran into a staff
of Indomie Noodles, the most popular noodle-processing company possibly
in Africa, at a restaurant in Ikeja, Lagos. The gentleman had walked up
to me for a quick chat, which was perfectly in order, as far as I was
concerned. Indeed, this is a regular occurrence most places I go. It is
always likely that I run into those who usually walk up to me to request
selfies or general discussion. And so, this young man announced himself
as my fan. He did not stop there, he said he follows me on Twitter and
enjoys my tweets but added matter-of-factly, so to say, that he does not
always agree with me. I responded that I was grateful for his
appreciation of me and his following, but I added that two people can
never agree on everything, all the time. Out of curiosity, I asked what
his points of disagreements were. Before, he could answer, I already
smelt a rat and so volunteered a guess. “Is it anything to do with
Buhari?” I asked calmly. He replied in the affirmative, “yes it is…”
Here we go again, I soliloquised. These days, I hate going into
unnecessary and unproductive conversations with those who have been
given the nomenclature “Buharideens” on social media. A Buharist is a
mild and reasonable supporter of President Muhammadu Buhari. I belonged
in that category between 2014-15. Not anymore. I like the President as a
person, but his politics and economics leave much to be desired. I can
write a PhD thesis on this subject. Back to definitions. On the other
hand, a Buharideen is a blind and rabid supporter of Buhari. He does
not, and will never see, anything wrong in Buhari, even if you supply
all the evidence in the world. It is always a waste of time to engage
such political fundamentalists in argument or dialogue. In the course of
this election process, I expect that Atiku will probably also sprout
such rabid followership. Such is the fervent, unfortunate passion that
elections can engender in this country. ‘Why do you disagree with my
position on Buhari?” I probed. “Buhari is still the best Nigeria can
offer in the present circumstance…” Hmmm, I sighed. “What are your
reasons for saying so?” I had pricked him at that moment and he wasted
no time in launching a diatribe of sorts. “Only thieves and looters
won’t appreciate this government. Things have improved even if not
perfect under Buhari.” I laughed raucously. I was used to those lines
whenever I encounter the Buharideens. Everyone is a thief and looter, or
friends of corrupt people, except members of their group. Not to
worry. I decided to take him on, even if I didn’t have the luxury of
time at hand. “Do you know your party APC and your Presidential
candidate would find it hard to campaign with his strongest weapon,
anti-corruption, when tomorrow comes, because APC is heavily populated
by the same so-called looters who migrated from PDP. I have not read it
anywhere that they were screened out or rejected by your party, rather
they have been promptly and amply protected by your party…” He nodded in
agreement, but still argued that APC was a much better party despite
the obvious hiccups and conflicts of interests. It won’t be hyperbolic
to describe APC as being seriously hypocritical, I told my new friend. I
reeled out names of the certified and certificated kingpins of
corruption in Nigeria who have ensconced and embedded within the APC
without as much as a whimper from the leadership of the party. My friend
kept mute, as if thinking hard on how to tackle me. But I kept punching
him with facts and my wide knowledge of Nigerian politics. He tried to
wriggle out by going totally banal. “We should just let Buhari complete
his second term so that power can return to the South West after that.”
Almost spontaneously, I exploded: “who told you power would shift to the
South West in 2023?” My friend said “it will, if we support Buhari
now…” but I disagreed most vehemently and tried to educate him a
bit. “If you are talking of zoning, then you are wrong to assume that it
is a binding agreement. When Buhari contested in 2003, who was in
power? Obasanjo, a Yoruba man. When Buhari contested in 2007, who was in
power? Yar’Adua, his kinsman from Katsina State. When Buhari contested
in 2011, who was in power? Jonathan, from the oil rich Bayelsa State in
the South South, and he was merely completing the term given to him
divinely after his boss died in power. When Buhari contested in 2015,
who was in power? Jonathan, who was serving his own first term as
President and was seeking a second term, the first time a President from
the region that lays the golden eggs was in that position. Did anyone,
including Buhari, give any consideration to those facts? Did Buhari not
contest against Obasanjo? Why did he not say that it was the turn of the
South West and so he would abstain and wait for the time when it was
the North’s turn. This is the charade and chicanery on display by the
promoters of zoning, which does not even exist in our Constitution.” I
concluded. My friend said no one can stop power coming back to the
South. I asked if the South West was the only zone in the South and why
he feels the South East or South South cannot have it. “Are the Igbos
not Nigerians or why do you think they can’t contest and win the
Presidency?” I wondered. My friend said the Igbos have not aligned with a
realistic power base which is currently controlled by Buhari. So, I
noticed and noted that the strategy of APC in the South West is to
brainwash the people of the region into deluding themselves that power
is coming back to them very soon as compensation for supporting Buhari.
This is so naïve and simplistic. I warned my friend that as we speak,
those who are already warming up for the 2023 Presidential election are
not limited, or restricted, to any particular zone. The nonsensical
impression that this jejune assumption creates is that some people hold
the levers of power as personal property which can be dashed out to
anyone, or a group of people, at will, but this is a total fallacy. From
the issue of zoning, my friend introduced another reason Buhari must
continue as President. He claimed that this is because there is no
viable alternative to him. I queried what the man was saying. How can
anyone say there is no alternative in a country of nearly 200 million
people? I told him that was virtually untrue. It would be pathetic of us
as a nation if we believe such foolishness. Exceptional talents abound,
in their multitude, that can take us to the promised land. He asked if I
can support an Atiku as President of Nigeria and I answered, “why
not?’. I felt his next line even before he regurgitated it. “But Atiku
is a very corrupt man…” He started the usual vituperations against a man
no one has ever tried in a court of Law since leaving office in 2007.
No one has even invited Atiku to explain his source of wealth. I told my
friend to perish the idea of thinking I, or indeed, any rational man,
would ever join his ilk in maligning a soul just for the fun of it. When
did allegation become conviction? I informed him clearly that if that
is the only way APC hopes to tackle Atiku, it won’t hold much water. He
also exhibited a dangerous mind-set which is presently the fall-back
position when Buharideens are cornered. “Where did Atiku get his wealth
from?”. He felt he had delivered to me what he must have thought was a
sucker punch, but I responded in kind. “Why is it that your members
rejoice and gloat about poverty instead of celebrating achievement. If
most of our leaders did what Atiku has done in retirement, our country
won’t be in this mess. At least Atiku has invested heavily in Nigeria
and profited in the process. He should be commended instead of being
criminalised without proof. Not everyone possesses this type of business
acumen” I added. He could see he wouldn’t be able to browbeat me about
the usual jargons of portraying APC as a party of angels, so he
announced he had to go. He appeared sober and subdued. Before he left, I
fired another shot. “How about your primaries? I’m reading all sorts?
Would you say elections were held in many places? Where they held, would
you say they were democratic? And what about the sordid allegations of
bribery and corruption levelled by aggrieved members, including our
adorable First Lady?” These were more of rhetorical questions and I did
not expect him to have immediate answers. It was obvious he was not
proud of the lack of internal democracy and lurid accusations of
corruption that has blighted the conduct of the party primaries and
almost set his party ablaze. He quickly thanked me and disappeared into
the night. At least he could not abuse me frontally like most
Buharideens do whenever you confront them with hard facts. For me
democracy is always a game of continuous experiment. Every four years, a
President must undergo a serious examination about his performance so
far, as well as subject his physical and mental state to public
scrutiny. Nothing suggests that he must be promoted automatically to a
second term in office if majority of the people do not think he has
performed creditably. I’m of the firm opinion that whoever I support
this time would be dropped if he still does not meet expectations. Being
a Buharist does not mean I will become a Buharideen. There is no doubt
that APC is seriously struggling to convince Nigerians that it deserves a
second chance. While I won’t join those who claim APC has failed
totally, I will support those who feel it has not lived up to its
grandstanding pre-2015 election. I say this because we had great
expectations. Notwithstanding the rot that had set into our political,
social and economic psyche Nigerians believed that true change was
desirable and possible. We voted for APC and Buhari on this basis. That
change has only happened in very few cases and objective members of APC
agree they have fumbled disappointingly. Most of the areas that we
wanted positive change in have turned out to be an embarrassing
anti-climax for this government. I will applaud the President for some
of the achievements of this government, but that is only because he is
the titular head of government. Others, particularly the Vice-President
and his economic team are to be commended for the fitful and irregular
economic progress we are witnessing. The President himself has not
personally shone brightly and is apparently surviving on a reputation
that is at best jaded. The attitude of government to the rash of
violence in the country is less than salutary. We were applauded for
attacking President Jonathan over the shortcomings of his government but
the Buharideens want Buhari to be treated like fresh eggs, or not to be
touched at all. Things must really change urgently and drastically in
practically all facets for this government to have any realistic chance
of winning the elections. It may not be too late. But the current trend
and discourse is not going to help it. I believe people are tired of the
same worn platitudes. There are many like me who feel our democratic
rights to choose our preferred candidates are sacrosanct and must be
respected. I will never abuse or stop anyone from campaigning or voting
for Buhari and I don’t expect anyone to abuse me for my personal choice,
like the Buharideens love to do. I expect the battle of wits to start
from next week. The first offensive is likely to be launched by former
President Goodluck Jonathan when the book on his political life and
stewardship is launched at the Transcorp Hilton Hotel, Abuja, on
November 20, 2018. It promises to be a blockbuster event. The Buhari
government has blamed the Jonathan government endlessly for its
inability to perform as expected. Former President Jonathan and his
supporters would have the first major opportunity to launch a blistering
attack on a government that rode to power on the crest of possessing
the magic wand to cure the alleged cesspit of corruption and
inefficiency they left behind. It is probably a time for Jonathan to
compare and contrast. We may yet learn that it is not yet Uhuru, and the
past three and a half years have been no more than running on the spot,
if even that! The only ace that the populace have is their democratic
right to keep changing governments until we get it right. If we fail to
make the right choice several times, that only improves our learning
curve. Eventually, one day, our democratic education and experimentation
will be complete, and we will throw up competent and capable candidates
from whom we can make proper and informed choices. For now, the
alternatives are stark. We can only make do with what we have and won’t
keep a failed government just because we are afraid of the next. Who
knows, where our salvation lies? God works, mysteriously. There are
interesting days and times ahead…The post 
Kaduna state governor, Nasir El-Rufai, has clarified on the N3.5 million
reportedly spent on a monthly basis to cater for detained leader of the
Islamic Movement of Nigeria aka Shi'ites, Ibrahim El-Zakzaky.Recall
that the Minister of Information, Lai Mohammed, revealed recently that
N3.5 million was used to feed El-Zakzaky monthly. Many Nigerians
condemned the Federal government after this revelation was made.In an
attempt to set the records straight, Kaduna state governor, Nasir
El-Rufai, yesterday said the N3.5 million was not only spent on feeding
El-Zakzaky but also on security and other things required to keep the
detained sect leader. The governor gave the clarification when he
received the management of Sun newspaper in his office.“The N3.5 million
monthly feeding on El-Zakzaky is not only about his food, but other
expenses on security men attached to him. The security men are
permanently stationed with him, they surrounded where he is kept. He is
in custody because he is facing murder charge which is not bailable,
among other charges. As a government, we decided to proscribe Islamic
Movement in Nigeria (IMN) of which El-Zakzaky is the president because
it is not registered with the Corporate Affairs Commission (CAC). So any
procession in the name of IMN is illegal, as far as Kaduna State
government is concerned.” he saidEl-Zakzaky was arrested in 2015 after
members of his sect had a clash with men of the Nigerian Army in Zakia,
Kaduna state. The post 
The National Drug Law Enforcement Agency has arrested two persons
suspected to be drug smugglers in Etsako East LGA of Edo State. The
suspects, Matthew Onumba and Ojukwwu Henry, disguised as policemen. They
were intercepted while conveying 50 bags of Indian hemp, along
Okpella-Okene road. The Edo State Commander of NDLEA, Mr. Buba Wakama,
said the suspects, who are members of a drug syndicate specialized in
smuggling Indian hemp from the South to North-West region of the
country, concealed the hard drug in a black Toyota Hiace bus, labeled
with stickers of the emblem of the Nigeria Police. He explained that the
bus had taken off from Uzebba, en route to Kaduna State, when it was
intercepted during a search operation by officers of the agency. He said
that the suspected smugglers had also attached a siren to the vehicle
in a bid to evade security checks by the police.The post 
The presidential candidate of the Peoples Democratic Party, Atiku
Abubakar in an interview with The African Report said the former
national security adviser, 'Sambo Dasuki is being detained
illegally'. When asked about Nnamdi Kanu, he said, 'I don’t want to be
individualistic on this issue. I reject any illegal detention, any
detention that is not based on law and order'. See excerpts from the
interview below...Are you concerned about the fate of Nnamdi Kanu, the
pro-Biafra activist?I don’t want to be individualistic on this issue. I
reject any illegal detention, any detention that is not based on law and
order.What about former national security adviser Sambo Dasuki?Dasuki
is being detained illegally. It is only a court that will say whether
he is guilty or not.Would you favour a referendum for the people of the
south-east, offering them the chance to leave the federation?When we get
there. We are going to have a conference to discuss reconstruction.
Then we will see. I don’t think there is any part of this country that
wants to leave this country. All what they want is fairness, equity and
justice.Are there any situations where where rule of law could be waved
aside for national security?No. The rule of law itself is a guarantor of
national security. How do you see Africa faring amid an international
trade war?Atiku Abubakar: It is certainly not a good moment for Africa.
The West colonised Africa, set up all the institutions in Africa, and
eventually granted independence to Africa. Now it has been withdrawing
from Africa over the years. First, they started with establishment of
the European Union (EU). The moment the EU was established, the British
started withdrawing from Africa, the French started withdrawing. So they
left a vacuum. Africa has never been a US destination. So Africa was
left on its own, whether for good or bad I don’t know. In one sense it
is better for Africa to be independent. Of course, for the purposes of
international cooperation, trade and investment Africa has to look
elsewhere.Are you happy that China is filling that vacuum?Loans from
China have [fewer] conditionalities [than] loans from the West. When you
have less conditionality, there is the tendency that the money you
borrow is likely to be misapplied, misused, misappropriated. And when
the money borrowed is not invested in a sector that can make profit,
then you are likely to default. With the West, they lend you money, and
it has to be based on an investment schedule and there must be returns.
In the case of China, they are just giving you money – “Okay go and
build an airport,” or “Go and build a railway station.” Where are the
feasibility studies? What is the return on investment? How long will it
take you to repay the money?You have called President Muhammadu Buhari’s
economic policy archaic. On what grounds?It’s not market friendly and
because of that we have not been getting much foreign investment. If
anything, in fact, we have witnessed a flip of foreign investment out of
Nigeria. Many foreign companies have closed shop in this country simply
because the wrong economic policies have been implemented.The post 
Peter Okoye and his wife, Lola, are celebrating their 5th wedding
aniversary today, November 17th.In a post he shared on his Instagram
page this morning, Peter reminisced on how he met Lola and how much of a
positive impact she has had in his life. The singer also reminisced on
the battles himself and Lola have fought with people who dislike her.He
remembered how people said his late mum never loved Lola. He stated in
his post that blood makes people related but loyalty makes them family.
Recall the Okoye brothers, Paul, Peter and Jude have been at
loggerheads, a fight that led to the dissolution of their famous group,
PSquare. Read what Peter wrote below ''Today marks the day I made one of
the best decisions of my life, to marry my best friend!A best friend
isn’t someone who’s just always there for you. It’s someone who
understands you a bit more than you understand yourself and today I’m
happy and have no regrets that I married my best friend,the one i laugh
with, live for, dream with and love. Most people don’t really know who
you are or what you represent. I have seen them insult you, call you all
sorts of names.” She’s Yoruba, She’s too Old for you, She’s biracial”
Bla bla bla!!! Like I didn’t know all this b4 I married you. They even
came up with stories of how our late Mum never liked you but God knows
that few weeks before she died you were the one getting up early to go
stay with her at St. Nicolas hospital, even keeping her friends and
pastors at your place for weeks because we were living on the mainland
then. She always called you “My Daughter” RIP Mum Your Daughter” and
your grand children are doing well Mum.... Maybe divorcing you to make
you a baby mama will make some people happy and me unhappy; sorry that
is not our portion.”Tufiakwa” Remember Love sees no color, love has no
age limit nor race. But one thing is sure, I am here to protect and
defend you from all those insults.I took a vow to defend and protect you
and our beautiful children on this day 5 years ago and no matter what
happens, you and the kids come first. Maybe thats what makes me
different from other guys; you guys are my priority. So let’s cut all
that “Blood is thicker than water” BS Obviously you guys are not the
water. Let’s not forget that Blood makes u related and Loyalty makes u
family.You’ve been through a lot because of me and I know how bad it’s
hurts. So please forgive those who insult you, attack you, battle you or
take you for granted. More than this...forgive yourself for allowing
them to hurt you. Continue being the strong woman our daughter Aliona
has as a role model and our son Cameron will know and understand what to
look for in woman when he’s grown. We’ve been together for over 16years
and married for 5yrs. You are still the same woman and I will never
forget the day I met you. How you used to book shows for us and all due
to the fact that you worked in an agency (FKG2). I remember how our
former manager Howie-T used to tell us how nice you were to us getting
us shows and all. Today the world doesn’t know all that. Instead they
call you Gold digger. If anyone should be called Gold digger here, it
should be me I remembered you gave me your official car few weeks after
we moved into lagos and started dating. That was the first time in my
life experiencing a car with air conditioning. and every night i would
sleep inside the car. You made me a better man Lola and i owe you
nothing but love and loyalty. Let me stop here because it’s our Wedding
Anniversary. No need for too much talk. Happy Wedding Anniversary to us
Lola we are so blessed and should be grateful to God for keeping us
alive and together; failure is not our portion.Thank you for accepting
me as I am flaws & all. Thank you for the greatest gifts, our
children. Thank you for helping me (us) through our career; for all the
gigs, free consultations etc. Thank you for standing by me regardless of
all the untruths spread about you. Thank you for caring for my Mother
till her final days, even accommodating her church pastors in your home
for weeks. Thank you for being an exceptional role model to our kids and
being the best partner for me. I'm thankful for you, you get me,
specially made for me till infinity. Oh lest I forget, thank you for my
1st air conditioned experience.... I love you Madam Kofo (Snr), Happy
5th Wedding Anniversary Babe. I go be your Zombie for Life#ZomeLoveThe
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